Really, I Should Be Calling Him: Videoblogging, Relationships, and It’s Late

But I’m watching this video, of (and everyone lately asks me, who?) Julia Allison (editor-at-large for Star magazine) and Jakob Lodwick (of Vimeo, who also hosts the clip, but can you call it hosting? blip.tv, where most of my video lives, hosts; Vimeo hosts a community, too) talking about their relationship.

I’ve been working on a larger post on this for Sexerati, on having a relationship in public; on these two, specifically, but of course it’s also a reason to very publicly reflect on — and then have my own — relationship in public. Would this help? Should we record our intimate conversations? Are we more honest in bed, yes. With a camera on? (It would not be the first time he & I have shared that end of a camera. The first time we were ever asked, “So, is this official?” was in the middle of an online video conference with four (at my quick count, and yes, I counted) cameras pointed in our direction.)

Posting. Calling. In that order, and that just has to be okay.

(And if I said to myself, “I may take this down in the morning,” it would be just for the pleasure in watching that sentence stay there all the longer.)